Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Happy Baby!

Benjamin has been a much happier baby recently. He has started smiling and cooing a lot, which is really fun to watch! Here are some recent pictures.

Hubby and Benjamin relaxing

Baby Burrito
Having a great time on the beautiful quilt from my Aunt Bev
Benjamin is sporting a huge prefold diaper with a yellow snappi holding it on (yeah, no pins!)

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

I'm one month old

Yesterday, Benjamin turned one month old! Benjamin's great-grandparents come to visit this past weekend. It was great to see them. My Grandma was able to quiet Benjamin down while she was here (well, one time at least, he was not on his best behavior....and showed my grandparents his amazing lungs).
Benjamin had his one month checkup this week. His appointment was on Tuesday, but his sleep deprived mother(that's me, folks!) drove to KC on Monday for his appointment, thankfully they got us in! Benjamin is still growing, but he is only in the 25th percentile in all the areas. It's hard for a little guy to catch up when you start out such a little squirt.

Here is what I know after taking care of Benjamin for one month:
  • He loves his mama...well, he loves to eat, nibble, snack, be attached to mama. He tries hard to latch on to Hubby's forearm, but it just doesn't produce the same results : ) Fortunately, I've learned how to multi-task (yes, I'm cooking while nursing)
  • He loves motion. Thank goodness for the Moby wrap that my mom made. He can be very fussy, and all I have to do is strap him in this contraption, started walking very fast, and he is out like a light. My mom thinks that he'll love roller coasters one day. He also loves the up and down motion. Hubby, my mom, and myself and lifted Benjamin in the car seat up and down more times that we can count (and we are all suffering from Baby elbow, back aches, etc because of it!)
  • He doesn't like to fall asleep. The boy will try his very hardest to hold his eyes open as long as humanly possible.
  • He loves the outdoors. He seems to like to stare up at the sky, and be outside in general. He is much calmer outdoors.
  • He hates wet diapers. He'll sit in poop all day long and not care (not that I actually let this occur), but as soon as he wets a diaper, he want it off. He'll scream until he is blue in the face to alert us to the fact that his diaper is wet. We have also determined that it is much easier to tell in cloth diapers. We are always at a lose when we are travelling out and about in a sposie and have to try to decide if he is wet (I apparently can't get the hang of disposables, it takes me twice the time to change them)
  • He likes the sound of the shower and vacuum cleaner. He'll go quiet at the sound of either of these.
  • He dislikes pacifiers with a passion. Only on vary rare occasions will Benjamin put up with a pacifier in his mouth. Other times, he'll scream if you try to attempt it. (much to my mother's dismay)
  • He only likes car rides if he is asleep when he is placed in the car. Otherwise: fuss-city USA
  • Oh, and he is the cutest baby ever! eventhough he often has this look on his face
Here is "Auntie" Julie getting Benjamin to rest.
In non-baby news, our house is coming together! We got the floor in today. Now I really have to make a ton of decisions, stat.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

We've been busy (and cranky)

Sorry for the hiatus in blogging, we've been on the go.
This past weekend, we took a trip to hubby's parent's house for Grammy's birthday. Benjamin slept the entire way there and back! (Unfortunately, he was a little cranky while there). He was able to meet his Aunt Danie and Uncle CJ as well as one of his cousins, Carson. Carson is pretty chunky compared to Benjamin! In fact, Carson was never as small as Benjamin is now...and Benjamin has gained 1 lb and 10 oz!

Monday night was also very fun because Benjamin got to meet his Uncle (well, great-great-uncle) James and see Aunt Martha again. Benjamin got a new toy, which he will have to wait a few years to use. Hopefully Uncle James can teach Benjamin how to properly fish..because he isn't going to learn from my father or me!

Starting Saturday night, Benjamin starting getting really cranky after each feeding. He would wimper...and then start screaming and not calm down to sleep. He also started spitting up a lot. Unfortunately, we did not get the picture of massive spit up all over my chin and down my front. Hindsight is 20-20.

Because Benjamin seemed as though he was in a lot of pain with feeding, I called the doc, and they got Benjamin in yesterday morning. So wonderful Gma Mooherd stayed overnight with us on Monday to take care of Benjamin and allow Hubby and I to get some much needed rest before our trip. It was a glorious night of sleep that I hadn't had in over three weeks!
The doctor thinks that Benjamin has reflux, and since he seems as though he is in pain, we are going to try some medicine, as well as keep Benjamin upright for 1-2 hours after eating. Since he eats every 2-3 hours, this does present a problem. So Benjamin can sleep in his carseat, bouncy chair, or elevated bassinett. Good new, Benjamin is still gaining weight well, he is up to 8 lbs 12 oz (with clothes on), up from 8 lbs last Tuesday.

We tried the bassinett last night...didn't work so well, everytime I tried to lay him down, he would get really fussy and wake up (and scream for a while). So I resorted to having him sleep on my chest while I sit in a chair. Benjamin slept well, I didn't.Eventhough I was moving slower than normal today, Benjamin had a pretty good afternoon. He settled down enough to get story time! Clearly, he was enjoying it.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Hello Homeys

Grandma Mooherd made me pose with my hat on...

What a difference...

a few weeks make! Three weeks ago today, my water broke at 6am. I had slept approximately 7-8 hours the night before, and I was still "tired" (as if I knew the meaning) from getting up so early.

I still had this large belly that I worked 39 weeks 1 day to grow:I went to the hospital, got checked (not dilated), and started my day long laboring, in which I finagled out of an IV so I could walk around the parking lot most of the morning (thank goodness it was a weekend!), bounced on the birthing ball, pleaded to be able to eat a sandwich for lunch (and a coke...which clearly brought me joy), got a pitocin drip (which confined me to the bed, boo), still didn't dilate, got more pitocin, labored all evening/sunday morning, and finally had a c-section.
Here I am after the surgery holding Benjamin for the first time :(not sure he if he was actually named at this point...we had to make some last minute decisions on what to name him (a downside of not finding out if you're having a boy or girl). I was numb from the chest down...which made the first breastfeeding experience quite interested (oh, and I couldn't sit up either, so the nurses flopped me on my side)

Other things that have changed:
  • I've learned to change diapers...cloth ones at that! (seriously, i may have changed 1-2 diapers in my whole life prior to my child arriving in this world)
  • 2 hours of sleep in a row makes me feel rested
  • I feel like I've really accomplished something if I get out of house with Benjamin by myself (it has only happened 3 times)
  • I now drink tons of water (blah), but it is worth it for little Benjamin to have enough to eat.
  • I have re-learned lots of lullaby's...I was shocked at how I had forgotten the words.
  • a completely quiet house is a wonderful sound (I used to enjoy noise quite a bit, but silence = sleeping or happy baby)
  • my memory and ability to use the right words when speaking have gotten worse with sleep deprivation (sorry mom for all the taunting all those years, I have been afflicted with the curse)
Everyone, have a great weekend!

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

In deep thought ...hmm what should I do today?
Eat, sleep, stay awake and scream? So many options.

Practicing opera

More power to ya
All comfy after bathtime

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Quick update

Benjamin is sleeping...and I need to eat dinner, but I thought I'd give a quick update. We saw Dr. Dickinson today (the doc who did benjamin's circ) for a 2 week follow-up. My little porker is growing!
Current Stats:
8 lbs (8 lbs, 4 oz with diaper on)
20 3/4 inches

Yippee, he has gained 11 oz in 8 days. Keep it up Benjamin...or 'Jamin as Auntie Sarah says.

Once I figure out how to download and upload video, I'll be posting videos!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

New Picture


Isn't he adorable!

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Mr Fussy Britches

Benjamin gets fussy at least a few times throughout the day, which I assume is pretty normal for babies. We have found a few things that quiet him down...
  • #1=nurse...but I can't be a constant pacifier
  • Put him in carseat, lift him up and down
  • walk up and down stairs with him
  • rock back and forth
  • Vacuum around him
  • Tonight, we learned a new "soother"....sit him in his carseat and set it next to the dryer while it is drying. Benjamin went from screaming to silent in just a few minutes! Oh how the small things make Hubby and I happy.